I would definitely call Central Boiler directly. If your dealer isn't helping you they need to know about if if nothing else.
Why isn't your auto-start working?
Your fan should turn on low right away. If your controller goes into medium or high modes, your fan will jump up to higher settings (or it should). You controller won't go into medium mode unless it detects the fire is going, and it won't go into high mode unless your burn pot is at least 800 deg F. This should all be in your manual.
You are probably like me and don't like to be a burden, but you paid too much for this unit to put up with it not working. Mine has been working fine (knock on wood) for 4 years now without any issues at all other than minor stuff like the original aerator melting.